In Andrew Marvell's "To His Coy Mistress," what kind of love or qualities of love is the speaker trying to express in the first section of the poem (lines 1-20)?

In the first half of the poem, the speaker is trying to convince the addressee, the "lady," that he would allow their love to grow slowly, naturally, and organically ("My vegetable love") if only they had the time for that. He says he would gladly spend a hundred years praising her eyes, and "an age at least to (praise) every part" of her. He says that she deserves to have all this time ("you deserve this state") and that he would happily dedicate all this time to her, if only they had the time.
However, the speaker's protestations that he would love his lady slowly are really nothing more than a crude trick to convince her to have sex with him. The conditional phrase ("Had we") that begins the poem is very telling, as is the reference to the lady's "coyness." The implication is that she is refusing to have sex with him, that she is being coy. She wants to wait, to get to know him better, and to let their love grown naturally, to a point where she feels comfortable taking the relationship to the next stage. He, however, is clearly impatient. His argument in this first stanza is that he would gladly love and court her for all the time in the world, if they had it, but he implies ("Had we") that they don't have all the time in the world. In the second half of the poem, he tells her more explicitly that, soon, the passions ("instant fires") of their youth will burn out, and her beauty "shall no more be found."
In answer to your question, then, the speaker is not expressing any kind of love at all, but only a lust wrapped up in a crude, cynical argument. He tells his lady to stop being coy, to take advantage of their youthful passions before they are too old to have them, that her beauty will soon fade, and, what's more, that if she doesn't hurry up and lose her "long-preserved virginity," to him, then "Time's winged chariot" will overtake them and turn all of his lust "into ashes."


The first section (lines 1-20) of Andrew Marvell's "To His Coy Mistress" describes an idealized love free from the confines of time or human mortality. The narrator of the poem discusses at length what love might look like if he and his mistress had unlimited amounts of time to develop their affection. The key lines in this first section are "Had we but world enough and time" (1) and "My vegetable love should grow / Vaster than empires and more slow" (11-12), as they illustrate that the narrator yearns for an idealized love in which youth lasts forever and lovers are permitted eons to court one another. 
Marvell later contrasts this idealized love with reality. More specifically, he identifies the fact that youth and life do not last forever, and so he and his mistress are not able to enjoy each other's company forever. Juxtaposed with the reality of finite time, the first section of the poem takes on a rather melancholy tone, as it illustrates the yearning for an impossible love that cannot be realized in the face of human mortality.
https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/44688/to-his-coy-mistress

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