What does the situation between Darcy and Lizzy say about people's ability to change their own behavior/attitude? Do we need to be hurt in order to grow?

Both Lizzie and Darcy change throughout the novel. Darcy initially displays a good deal of pride. He's an aloof, somewhat forbidding figure, arrogant and remote. Despite developing strong romantic feelings for Lizzie, he's not prepared to take their relationship further, as she's his social inferior. Pride is holding him back, preventing him from leading a happy, fulfilled life.
Lizzie, for her part, displays prejudice. She sees the dark, brooding Darcy and immediately draws the conclusion that he's not the right man for her. Lizzie becomes so set in her shallow opinion of Darcy that she's ready to believe the false stories spread about him by the ne'er-do-well Mr. Wickham. However, when she finds out the truth about Darcy—and Wickham—she realizes that she'd been a tad harsh in her initial estimation.
To some extent, Darcy and Lizzie change their respective opinions of each other through experiences of hurt. Wickham is the catalyst here. He hurt Darcy by abusing his family's hospitality and trying to get his greedy hands on his sister's inheritance. And he hurt Lizzie by eloping with Lydia, potentially ruining the Bennet family's reputation as well as wrecking Lizzie's future marriage prospects. Wickham has inadvertently forced Lizzie and Darcy to take a fresh look at each other. This time they like what they see, and there's to be no going back to pride or prejudice in their relationship.

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