How does the Duke prove he completely trusts Virginia in "The Canterville Ghost" by Oscar Wilde?

The Duke proves he completely trusts Virginia in two ways. First, after she has been missing for some time, she reappears and tells her family that the ghost is now dead and that he has given her jewels. She takes her family and the Duke to the ghost's skeleton and tells them that he was sorry for all he had done and that God had forgiven the ghost. In response, the Duke does not get angry but refers to Virginia as "an angel" and kisses her. He trusts her implicitly.
Later, after they are married, the Duke asks Virginia what happened between her and the ghost. She does not answer, and he is content with her response, as long as she tells their children. His willingness not to press her on this subject and to continue their marriage shows that he trusts her.


The proof you are looking for can be found in the closing paragraphs of "The Canterville Ghost."  
By this point in the story, the Duke and Virginia are married. They are returning home from their honeymoon. It's been a few years since Virginia helped Sir Simon in the Garden of Death, but Virginia continues not to tell anyone any specific details about what happened. This bothers the Duke because he tells Virginia a husband and wife should not have secrets between them. He asks Virginia to explain to him what happened between her and the ghost. Virginia begs him,   

Please don't ask me, Cecil, I cannot tell you. Poor Sir Simon! I owe him a great deal. Yes, don't laugh, Cecil, I really do. He made me see what Life is, and what Death signifies, and why Love is stronger than both.

The Duke proves his love and trust in Virginia in the next two paragraphs.  

The Duke rose and kissed his wife lovingly.
"You can have your secret as long as I have your heart," he murmured.

He doesn't grudgingly kiss his wife. He lovingly kisses his wife. He doesn't press the issue, become angry, or beg. He accepts his wife desires to keep this one secret, and believes her completely that the secret in no way affects her feelings toward him. He proves his trust through the way he responds to Virginia's desire to continue keeping her secret. 

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